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一分耕耘,一分收获

2007-01-29 10:46:25| 分类：寄语孩子 | 标签： |举报 |字号大中小订阅

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听着儿子学说话的录音，感叹时间过得真是太快了。转眼间他已经快8岁了，感觉非常惭愧，自己在孩子身上花的时间太少了，似乎在孩子教育上还没有足够多的耐心和理解。还记得他在写给爸爸妈妈的信上说“妈妈是英语老师，可她没怎么教我英语？我希望她把我培养成优秀的人才。”我觉得我们总是在无形当中给孩子过大的压力。前几天他在看《读者》，特别郑重其是地念道“给孩子过大的期望，容易让孩子自卑；给孩子过多的保护，容易让孩子无能，给孩子过多的指责，容易让孩子无措，。。。”还说你们就是这样的。儿子的学习一直都没怎么让我们做父母的操心，他挺自觉的而且很好强，不服输。上次他的英语考试才拿了69分，爷爷奶奶爸爸说直接间接地批评了他，说英语老师的孩子英语还考那么差。我听了，心里觉得挺对不起孩子，爷爷时不时给他辅导数学，他本人爱看书，不用叫，他都自觉地找书看，可英语呢？我却没能抽空给他检查一下，可能因为不用升学考，老师也没有给予重视。所以我告诉自己晚上只要在家，一定要放下所有的事情，辅导孩子英语，让他在期末考扬眉吐气。前两天他回家告诉我英语听写100分，我为他的努力和进步感到高兴。说真的，这孩子真聪明，只要他想学没有什么学不好的。

儿子期末考结束了,英语竟然考了100分,让我十分欣喜,也为他的进步感到骄傲.真是印证了那句话"一分耕耘,一分收获".

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